Hi there! I'm just a part-time gurl.
I've been dressing most of my life and truly enjoy my feminine side. I find dressing like a woman to be so pleasurable.
One reason is that it allows me to escape the need to act manly or ‘macho’. It is a real escape, to abandon the masculine mask that I have worn for so long, and to project a gentler personality. It allows me to giggle, to sigh, to pout, to smile brightly, and...Yes...even to cry if I feel sad. It liberates me to swing my hips as I climb stairs, to keep my knees together when I sit, to crouch rather than bend down, to place one foot in front of the other as I walk, and to enter/exit a car with grace and assurance.
Dressing also gives me the opportunity to have sensuous fabrics close to my body. The silkiness of lingerie. Skirts of silk and soft cotton, lots of fullness or straight and hip-hugging. Flowing blouses and lace-fitting tops. Preppy outfits and flouncy dresses. And hair styles that are full and stylish, brushing my neck and shoulders as I move. Jewelry that flickers and moves with me. And a subtle scent that reminds me of my femininity. And finally, that magical feeling as I don my pumps and stride forth, making a statement with every step.
And dressing makes me feel younger. Makeup and body shaping and lovely hair have the power to subtract years, and who does not savor that? At the same time that it masks the marks and ridges of passing years, it imbues me with so much more energy and vitality than I normally experience. It gives me the opportunity to be "as youthful as I feel", regardless of my biological age. In short, it performs for me a miracle that nothing else can.
Finally, dressing makes me feel vulnerable. It makes me fearful of those who might speak unpleasantly or bring me harm. And it reminds me that my ideal of a woman is not rough and tough, but rather, soft and tender. Yes, I enjoy being a woman.
Hope to hear from others and GG's.
